She is called Sunny. Her real name, matronly, monotonous Martha, was only used very briefly in her early life. Very briefly until one day, as she sat glowering and gloomy in her high chair, silently passing judgment on the creamed corn and mashed carrots being served to her on a thick rubbery spoon, her mother observed, not unkindly, “well, aren’t you just a cloudy day! We should call you Sunny.” And as those things so often go, they did.
As a child Sunny learned that it’s a lot of trouble to be gloomy. People were forever asking her what was wrong and trying to help her, solve her problems, cheer her up. She found them pandering, patronizing, annoying. She wanted to be left alone, to color, to read, to play with her dolls, and didn’t need some meddlesome adult suggesting that she go play with the other kids, or sing along, to pull her sleeping bag up to her chin and share her deepest giggly secrets like the girls did in the Young Adult books she bought through the Troll Book Order. Eventually she found it was easier to feign cheerfulness, to invest in a little smile and force a little laugh than it was to maneuver through awkward probing questions from concerned teachers, parents, strangers. Though she never lost the murky shadows that tainted her outlook as she got older she forced the darkness inside and on the outside she became, well, Sunny.
Adolescence was brutal. She got giant breasts nearly overnight and her hips bloomed, her hair was limp and dry from an ill-timed perm and the pool. She stayed short, as the boys got taller, smelling of damp socks and drugstore cologne; they stood too close and made coarse observations about her boobs. She had a recurring nightmare about getting her period in class; leaving a dark sticky mess on the plastic chair, blood seeping through her knit shorts. She’d watched it happen to Carol Ann, in white jeans of all things! A big red spot right on the seam. Carol Ann was never going to get a boyfriend, ever.
I will never be leggy or lithe or coltish. I will never have a “peaches and cream” complexion or a button nose or be cavity-free. I will never have long, lustrous hair, perky breasts, or feet sans callus. I will never have the hands of a pianist or the legs of a runner or the arms of a swimmer. I will never be quick on my feet or graceful when I dance.
As terrible as the boys were, the girls were worse, the girls were mean. They made it crystal clear that Sunny never had the right hair, or clothes and she was still riding her old pink banana seat bike to school, embarrassing! Her family didn’t go camping on the weekends up at Warm Lake or to the State Fair in the summer. Sunny had to do chores, like weeding, on the weekends and in the summer they visited her decrepit grandmother at her farm in Indiana. While the other kids were tubing down the river, Sunny had to take swimming lessons at the Y and wear a brown (brown?!) hand-me-down swimsuit from her older cousin. The butt of it was all fuzzy from sitting on the rough concrete pool edge while her pregnant swim instructor, dark pubic hair fringing the crotch of her blue Speedo, barked orders. Instead of listening, Sunny smiled her half smile and read and re-read the sign behind the teacher: “This is our ool, notice there is no “p” in it. Please keep it that way.“ She did pee in it of course, it was a lot of trouble to get out of the pool, tromp to the changing room where the tile floor was cold and wet, pull your sticky swimsuit down and then, finally, pee, hot and yellow, like a ray of sun.
Inside Sunny was sad and angry. She thought of her sadness and anger like a black sludge all through her body. Inside, where others had plump, juicy tomato-like organs, precious ivory bones, licorice whip veins, Sunny had the La Brea tar pits. Every slight, every insecurity, every sorrow and loss, it all caught in her bitter sludge and stayed there, perfectly preserved, like a baby dinosaur.
On the outside, Sunny made herself even sunnier. She put her hair in pigtails, sported polka dots, flirted with garish broomstick skirts and billowy peasant blouses. She wore railroad stripe overalls, fluorescent pink sneakers with ruffly socks. She had a wry sense of humor and she honed it to a sharp metallic point. She became self-deprecating, ready, willing, happy to call attention to her every fault and weakness, she’d rather skewer herself before someone else had the chance.
I have the shoulders of a shrugger, a sigher; I stoop collecting the missing buttons of my old coat. Beauty is weightless –I carry the weight of the world on my shoulders. I am Atlas, 2004, out of date. God or hero? I am quick to judge. I can’t read a map. Or drive a stick.
At 15 she further embraced her fake, sassy brightness by dying her hair a brassy red. And, she kept dying it, all through her 20s and 30s. All through college and her first job and second job and graduate school she used L’Oreal Excellence Crème Red Penny hair dye. Eventually, she toned down her clothes, shifted to blacks and neutrals as she aged, moved away from polka dots and overalls. She toned down her humor, too, she was still funny, just not viciously, desperately so. But she always kept the red hair.
Never will I be an Olympic ice dancer. A sharpshooter. A bank robber. A banker. A bank teller. I will never be a cattle rustler. Satin rustles but is universally unflattering. I will never be a Merchant Marine. A Somali pirate. A Blockbuster. A Broadway Baby. A Broadway Belter. Give me an old fashioned merchant on the corner of Broadway and Main. “Compound pharmaceuticals mixed here.”
By 38 she realized that she was mostly a failure. She had spent the past 10 years in an unsatisfying, low paying job, had few successful friendships, no successful relationships. Her parents were dead. She and her sister no longer spoke. Even her dog seemed mostly disinterested in her, she could get a slow wag from him when she filled his food bowl, but he always walked slowly back to his bed under the window and sighed heavily after he ate.
She thought occasionally about suicide. Okay, daily. Sometimes it was just a flimsy passing thought and sometimes a really serious, okay let’s do this thing already kind of a thought: more focused, more concrete. Sometimes when she was walking to work and it was particularly unpleasant weather, or she was tired, or she just didn’t want to go to work, she considered throwing herself in front of a car at the intersection of 16th and Bonview. It was a particularly bad intersection and there was always plenty of cars. But then she worried that the person that hit her, that it would ruin that persons life, for at least a while, and the media, the papers, that stupid woman on channel 7 news, would say bad things about her, like she was crazy or vindictive and that she selfishly, in the most selfish of all acts, ruined the life of a complete stranger who was just minding her own business, driving to work, or worse, taking her only child, conceived by a surrogate after a long battle with infertility, to Montessori school. And then she jumped in front of their brand new used Volvo and ruined their lives. No, she couldn’t do that. It had to be quieter. Less dramatic. Something alone.
I will never again be a virgin, a born-again virgin, a born-again Christian or even just a regular old Christian. The Christians might have had me once, when I was very young, I liked the formality of the fabrics at the alter, the stained glass windows, the dark arched wood of the high church ceiling and the singing, but they kept handing out the same old coloring sheets in Sunday school, with Jesus in his big brown robe standing next to a wooly lamb. Brown and white, brown and white. I much preferred my coloring book at home based on Bulfinch’s Mythology: The Age of Fable or Stories of Gods and Heroes. I used all the colors to fill in the lines of the Pegasus and the Chimaeras and Centaurs. Medusa had snakes for hair! Even the fleece was gold.
She thought the least dramatic thing would be to buy a boat and take it out on the ocean, and unscrew the motor (outboard?) and tie her ankles to the rotors (propellers?) and hop in the water and then pull the motor off it’s rigging (housing?) and then it would slip, quick and heavy, beneath the green black water (blue?) and take her down down down until she drowned. Like a cat in a well. An old fashioned brick well with a wooden bucket, so you could raise up the bucket to make sure the cat (kittens?) was dead and also get the sodden limp body out so it didn’t poison your drinking water. But, she didn't really know that much about boats. And she lived in a landlocked state.
She’d heard of a girl who jumped out of a hotel window downtown. Like the 30th floor or something. A fellow student at the time, who worked for a radio station, was one of the "first on the scene" and he described how the girl just laid there dead in the middle of the sidewalk, with part of her brain like an earthworm, grey-pink, slimy, crawling out of her ear, but otherwise just normal looking. Like asleep. Or resting. But, Sunny knew with her luck there would be an embarrassing clothing malfunction, like her blouse catching on the flagpole or her pants splitting at the crotch, and the people that found her, dead, on the sidewalk, would see her ratty old underwear, or worse, her dead bare breasts exposed to the world. No, if she was going to do this she needed to do it with dignity. Jumping off a hotel was not really very dignified. It was kind of like “look at me!!!” She didn’t want anybody to look. She wanted them to look away.
I will never be Molly Ringwald. An quirky, redheaded ingénue. Your one and only. Yours. The “one.” The “it” girl. It.
The grey hair at her temples started to resist the hair dye so she stopped using it. Slowly her hair returned to its natural field mouse color. Sunny had inherited the unremarkable features and practical, solid body of her Indiana farm grandmother. She was round and womanly with strong shoulders in an age that appreciated slightness and slim hips and delicate wishbone collarbones. Her breasts might have been magnificent on someone taller, if they sat a little higher, if they weren’t matched by her poochy middle, stocky thighs and broad shoulders. She had nice full lips and small hands, but, Sunny, always her greatest critic, knew it wasn’t enough to have pretty lips and hands.
I never bother with sunscreen anymore. I cultivate sunburns that turn into a glow and settle into freckles on my shoulders, my nose, constellations across my chest. The heat of the sun like the warm touch of another, and a reminder that something always remains from that contact, invisible, imperceptible, insignificant. Like a kiss you can feel – the soft touch of another’s lips, the lurch of hope and maybe – long after the kiss has ended.
Shut up, get over it.
Sunny at 39 went about life in a sloggy moody fog, tooth brushing, dish washing, laundry, TV, bills, dog walks, though she still answered the phone cheerfully at work, “Thompson Brothers Production Services, this is Sunny, how can I help you?” Her depression morphed into a perpetual melancholy that you could see at the corners of her eyes, if you looked close, into her soul. But, nobody had ever tried to look into Sunny’s soul. Maybe once or twice someone had, when she was in college perhaps, but she had quickly turned away.
As far as Sunny was concerned she probably didn’t even have a soul, any spark she had slowly suffocated, crushed with self-imposed misery, for three decades. Her tar pit was now a Weber kettle grill, burnt out, full of charcoal ash and charred bits of old grey meat.
I will never again have an original thought. I will not express this thought through a singular and creative voice. We are all sheep, brown and white, brown and white, comforted by our wooly thoughts. Hunter/gatherers. Cast your pearls before swine and dive for abalone, sheep.
Evening work event. Sunny hated evening work events, schmoozing with clients, people who were better than her, people who were well-adjusted, married with kids, in good jobs, jobs paid them enough money that they could be schmoozed by Sunny, a disingenuously cheerful, middle-aged, moderately overweight depressive. Wasn’t it enough to just go to work? She tried to get someone to go with her but her “friends” were mostly just reluctant acquaintances. One guy, David, she’d gone out with him a couple of times after they met online, told her he couldn’t go because he was having dental surgery the following week. You can’t have one drink because you’re having dental surgery NEXT WEEK? And, Ryan, Ryan told her he had “worked out pretty hard yesterday,” so he wasn’t up for it.
So, Sunny went by herself. The restaurant was close to her house and she sometimes went there in the evening, to sit at the bar for a burger and a beer. She knew the bartender Richard, by name, he was always pretty nice to her though she thought of him as a loser: still a bartender at his age! He was probably 45, but he looked 47 or 48. He was short, maybe as short as Sunny, swarthy with dark hair that seemed always in need of a cut. Richard was ill proportioned: long torso, short legs, short arms and a broad chest. He always wore a black t-shirt stretched over his potbelly and pants that were too long and frayed at the bottom.
Sunny helped herself to a glass of wine. There was several tables set up with trays of cheese and crackers and vegetables for dipping. Sunny never ate at these events. She didn’t like to eat in front of other people. She forced herself to have a conversation with Morty, who was only there for the free food (that’s what he told her). Morty stood too close and spit little bits of food at her because he was always talking with his mouth full. Sunny drank her glass of wine and then another. Luckily the culture of these events was that everybody always drank too much. Sunny was no exception. If she was going to stand here, feet swollen in her cheap pumps, talking to Morty, and then D.J. and then Cal, none of whom she liked, and who didn’t really like her either, though they probably appreciated her pleasant phone manner, she was going to drink too much. Guaranteed.
I will never win a Pulitzer Prize. A Guggenheim Fellowship. Or be presented a Nobel. I’m not gonna be honored with sainthood after a lifetime of service to the poor and infirm. Nothing about lepers. Nope. There will never be a statue of me, or a street in my hometown, “insert my name here” Boulevard. Sunset Boulevard, no good boulevard…I will never be a member of the Academy. A world leader. A scientist, a mathmetician. A man. A made man. A man made lake. I might be an acid lake like Kamchatka. I have an acid tongue. But, tongue is delicious, with tomatoes and peppers, Saturdays only, until we run out.
For most of the evening Sunny stood with her back to the wall and watched as her co-workers, their clients, their spouses, came and went. Richard came through a couple of times with more booze, more ice. He wiped up the crumbs from the crackers and picked up wadded up napkins and toothpicks off the floor. She would have to stay until the end, to help with clean up, to pack up the promotional material, the pens, the note pads, the brochures that nobody every looked at anyway, but that were displayed on a table by the door. That was part of her job. And so she waited, shifting her weight from one uncomfortable foot, to the other, and had more wine, and thought gloomy, negative, depressing thoughts.
Finally, it seemed as though the last drunk hold outs had stumbled out the door. As she pushed her back from the wall, Sunny realized she had probably had too much to drink and wondered if she should walk home instead of driving. But, it wasn’t that far, and her feet really hurt. Richard came in and started to tidy up; he smiled at her. She smiled back and then quickly looked down, trying not to be too friendly, to focus on her task. He walked over closer and picked up a half-empty bottle of wine, “have a drink with me?” He pulled out a chair and Sunny plopped down then immediately wished she hadn’t plopped, but lowered herself more gracefully. She let out a sigh as he poured her a drink and one for himself.
And then Richard looked at her and caught her gaze, and before she looked back down at her drink Sunny noticed that he had nice gentle eyes; she hadn’t really noticed his eyes before. She looked up again and as she looked into his eyes she could see him looking into hers, and then, weirdly, she felt him looking right down, right into her soul, right into her tar pit and her barbeque.
“I love you Sunny.” And Sunny didn’t look away.
Never an heiress. Never a monarch. A socialite. A social butterfly. A Monarch butterfly. An Olympian. An Amazon. A Texan. The yellow rose of Texas. The rose of your heart. The heart of darkness. I’m a ball buster but I suffer from night blindness.